Archive for November, 2003

Organised, me?

Nov 30 2003 Published by coolcat under Uncategorized

It all started when someone complimented me on having good organisational skills.

I gawked in disbelief. Racked my brains to think of recent incidences that may have led to that compliment. Couldn’t think of any. Gawked again.

The person couldn’t see my facial expressions because it was a phone conversation. Which was a good thing. I responded with a cool, “Really? Thanks, that’s interesting to know.”

This occurred a few days ago. That statement was stucked in my mind throughout the day. I’ve been complimented on an assortment of things before but never this.

My reverie was jolted back to real life when my bro announced dad’s plans for the day.

“He wants you to drive us all out for lunch, then drop by the mechanics’ shop to get your car fixed.”

I found myself admiring dad’s plans. See, I was supposed to wake up early to get new batteries for my car but I ended up waking at a very late hour. Hey, it was the holidays after all. So there I was, barely awake and wondering what’s for lunch and when will I ever get my new car batteries when my bro made that announcement.

I was as pleased as the Cheshire Cat. Way to go, dad! I love it when things are planned efficiently after taking into consideration the limitations of the situation. I don’t like seeing people with nothing to do. Might as well send them home to sleep, that’s what I say. Or give them something productive to do. But I digress…

Back to the story. It suddenly dawned upon me that in this respect, I am like my dad. Inheriting some good traits together with some bad ones. So that comment about me being organised might not be too far off the mark…

Actually, I’m inspired by that remark to bring forth this ‘inheritance’ from my dad and let it shine. It’s moments like this that make life so interesting and worthwhile.

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Under the Weather

Nov 28 2003 Published by coolcat under Uncategorized

After a hearty dinner yesterday, courtesy of my dad’s awesome healthy curry chicken (no added coconut milk), I developed a sore throat. I felt feverish and all I wanted to do was to curl up in bed and sleep the night away. I felt bad that I had to cancel my DVD movie night with my siblings – they were so looking forward to it. But I needed to recover from this as fast as I can for the Xmas productions’ sake.

So much for housework and DVDs…

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Holiday-itis

Nov 27 2003 Published by coolcat under Prattle

With all the stress of last minute production blues, my close buds wanted to plan for our near future holiday trips. I love to travel but it’s hard to work up the enthusiasm for it when one is swamped with like a zillion things to do and having a gadget wish-list that competes for a share of my leisure budget. Argh.

I have to say no to myself countless of times and at the same time, surfing for more information on the latest gadgets and knick-knacks. Yes, I am a closet gadget freak. However, most of my wants are rather practical in nature. I would not yearn for something that is beyond my reach. But it is those things that fall under my budget that clamours for attention.

I cannot give in to that… It can only breed discontentment and disatisfaction in my heart. Lord, help me learn how to be content with what I have and not long for the things that I don’t but think that will ‘complete’ my lifestyle. I don’t need all these things. I already have You and Your inheritance is worth more than I can ever imagine.

Tonight I won’t be surfing for gadgets, I will be productive doing my house chores and worship practice. Hope to watch some DVDs too if time permits.

Oh boy… it feels like Friday… Speaking of Fridays, Freaky Friday is an entertaining flick with heart. Jamie Lee Curtis is such a convincing and marvellous actor! Lindsay Lohan is quite good too. The familiar storyline is decent, and not all that wow but the talented cast made it great.

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About the Hot and Cold Treatment

Nov 27 2003 Published by coolcat under Lurve

Dr Love dispenses some sagely advice to a recurring and disturbing pattern in friendship building:

Dear Dr. Love,

See, there’s this guy I like, and he’s getting me all confused! When we first got to know each other, he showered me with loads of attention and the next thing I know, he’s colder than a frozen salamander. He’s not answering my calls the way he used to and now he ain’t calling no more. I feel terrible because I don’t want to lose his friendship. What gives?

Confused

Dear Confused,

If it makes you feel better, you are not alone. I’ve received distressed calls like yours from more girls than I could count. Initially he sounded like he was interested in getting to know you more – that might explain his high level of interest. But now, he sounds as if he had lost interest in knowing you more and taking the friendship to the next level. Maybe he doesn’t want to lead you on and is putting the brakes on the friendship.

I know it is sad that this happened. Some people (and not just guys) would not have anything to do with a member of the opposite sex unless they are interested in going out with them or embarking on a relationship with them. They believe that there is no such thing as a platonic friendship between a guy and a girl. Your guy friend sounds like he may fall in this category. Take heart that there are many others who do not think the same way.

Don’t let this experience sour you though. Just accept your friend as he is and move on. May your next friendship encounter be a pleasant and long-lasting one.

Dr. Love

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Celebrating on the Other Side of the Red Sea

Nov 26 2003 Published by coolcat under Devotions

A page from my journal on Nov 21, 2000

I was ministered greatly by a Colin Hurt sermon I heard on the way to work this morning. It talks about Exo 13-15 and is entitled “Celebrating Victory At the Other Side of the Red Sea”.

I want to share the points which ministered to me and also took the liberty to add some of my own personal insights to it. Hope that you’ll be blessed by it as much as I am :

God’s guidance in the desert

[Exo 13:20-22] After leaving Succoth they camped at Etham on the edge of the desert. By day the LORD went ahead of them in a pillar of cloud to guide them on their way and by night in a pillar of fire to give them light, so that they could travel by day or night. Neither the
pillar of cloud by day nor the pillar of fire by night left its place in front of the people.

God promises His guidance to His children, that’s true. But only if he/she is moving towards His purpose. Sometimes we have to go through times of uncertainty and confusion before God’s purpose in us is fulfilled. Confusion is not a sin. Even the apostle Paul went
through times of confusion.

[2 Corinthians 4:8] We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair.

We can be in confusion (being perplexed) but we need not be in despair for God is always in control.

Future not known for our own good

[Exo 14:8] The LORD hardened the heart of Pharaoh king of Egypt, so that he pursued the Israelites, who were marching out boldly.

[Exo 14:10-12] As Pharaoh approached, the Israelites looked up, and there were the Egyptians, marching after them. They were terrified and cried out to the LORD. They said to Moses, “Was it because there were no graves in Egypt that you brought us to the desert to die? What have you done to us by bringing us out of Egypt? Didn’t we say to you in Egypt, `Leave us alone; let us serve the Egyptians’? It would have been better for us to serve the Egyptians than to die in the desert!”

The Israelites were marching boldly after they left Egypt. Little did they know that the Egyptians were hot on their heels. But when they realised that their enemies were gaining in on them, they became frightened, cried out to God (or rather, whined at God) and complained
to Moses to say that they wanted to go back to where they were – Egypt.

Sometimes we wish we could see our whole lives ahead of us. It sure would help us make good decisions! But God in His grace, chose not to do so. Else we would have trembled at the hardships that we needed to go through and turn back to who we were before we were knew Him. We would want to go back to our Egypt – the old comfortable life that we used to live, etc, etc. But we need to realise that our worst day as a Christian is better than our best day living without God.

I remembered envying those who were suffering for the cause of Christ when I felt so far away from Him. At least they had the assurance that they were following God’s will and that He was pleased with them. Let’s not be despaired and want to go back to the good ol’ days. Don’t be deceived by the devil, for one day in the house of God is better than a thousand days in the world.

Take the whining out off your voice

God doesn’t like people who complain at every hardship that they face. The Israelites were experts in the School of Complaints. When we are tempted to complain, we need to remind ourselves to count our blessings first.

Our prayers need to be those that glorify God. If we feel weak, we should ask for strength – strength to overcome trials, strength to love an unlovable person. If we feel that life is unfair to us, we should pray for God to change our heart attitude and to remind us of the good things that we have in our lives. If we feel lacking in courage, we should ask for it – courage to preach the gospel to the lost, courage to ask for forgiveness, courage to tell the truth, courage to carry the cross. The psalms are good examples of prayers. Don’t let our prayers sound like a self-pity party but learn to pray from a proper perspective.

[Exo 14:1-4] Then the LORD said to Moses, “Tell the Israelites to turn back and encamp near Pi Hahiroth, between Migdol and the sea. They are to encamp by the sea, directly opposite Baal Zephon. Pharaoh will think, `The Israelites are wandering around the land in confusion,
hemmed in by the desert.’ And I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and he will pursue them. But I will gain glory for myself through Pharaoh and all his army, and the Egyptians will know that I am the LORD.” So the Israelites did this.

We should welcome trials into our lives as something good for us. We need to know that nothing will happen to [your name] unless it first goes through God, the Father. God was the one who led the Israelites into a ‘trap’ – the mountains on their sides, the Red Sea in front of
them and the Egyptians at their backs. Trials will happen to us, whether we like it or not, and at the end of it all, God will be glorified.

[1 Peter 4:12-13] Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.

[1 Peter 4:14] If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.

The proper attitude would be to press on without complaining.

[1 Peter 4:19] So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

Don’t stand still, move on!

[Exo 14:13-15] Moses answered the people, “Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the LORD will bring you today. The Egyptians you see today you will never see again. The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Then the LORD said to Moses, “Why are you crying out to me? Tell the Israelites to move on.

There are times when God wants us to be still. But apparently, this was not one of those times. Moses saw the Red Sea ahead of them and wrongly concluded that they should just stay put until God delivered them from the hands of the Egyptians.

Besides taking note (and some comfort!) that a great leader and friend of God like Moses could wrongly assume what God wants them to do, we also should take note that we need to walk by faith and not by what we see.

There will be times when the circumstances are so daunting that you just don’t feel like moving on, but God wants you to move on. There may be times when you are so gung-ho to embark on something worthwhile but God tells you to hold on, to wait a little longer.

[Jer 29:13-14] You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you,” declares the Lord.

The praise that came too late

Only after the Red Sea had been parted and the enemies were wiped out did the Israelites praised God [Exo 15]. The praise came too late. It even had bad theology!

[Exo 15:2 ] The LORD is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him.

Note the words, ‘he has become my salvation’. How could this be? God only emerged as their Saviour after they tasted victory? What bad theology! God has ALWAYS been our salvation.

David was called to be a king when he was 16 but he only saw it come to pass when he was 30. He spent most of those 14 years running away from Saul’s murderous intent. I think he would have been confused and wondered when will he see the promises of God fulfilled in him. But in his psalms he praised God and entrusted his life into His hands. He praised God even before he saw the victory coming through. Praise results in victory, it does not and should not follow victory. David had good theology. No wonder God called him a man after His own heart.

If only the Israelites had marched towards the Red Sea and praised God for the victory that is to come, they would have participated fully in the victory over the Egyptians. The Egyptians would have perished amidst the joyful praises of a people who had every faith in their
awesome God. Oh, what a pity that their praises came too late!

God doesn’t promise His children a life of comfort. He is more interested to shape our character than He is for our comfort. We rest in the hope that all good things comes to those who love God – good things that will bring us closer to Him. Good things that will make us more Christlike. Good things that will glorify Him.

[Rom 8:28] And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

And you can be sure that He has good plans in store for us. He didn’t give us plans to make us miserable and feel down.

[Jer 29:11] “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

[Exo 14:25] He made the wheels of their chariots come off so that they had difficulty driving.

They discovered chariot wheels at the base of the Red Sea. A reminder of God’s awesome deliverance of the children of Israel.

May this sermon be a reminder that praise always results in victory. Let’s praise God today for the victory that will come tomorrow!

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Doing well vs just getting it over and done with

Nov 26 2003 Published by coolcat under Devotions

This Christmas production is teaching me a thing or two about cultivating the spirit of excellence. I am quite replete of perfectionistic tendencies. I hate to push people, always prefering them to give their best on their own will and accord. To demand of a person more than what they are willing to give is quite a distasteful task to me.

It’s always so nice to have people who love what they are doing join the team and then, you don’t feel bad when you have to ask them to do something more. It would be their joy to stretch even further. Things will then flow smoothly.

But you can’t always have that. Even those who love their ministries get discouraged every now and then. There is a need for encouragers to come alongside and cheer them on and lighten the load.

Therein lies the art of inspiring and motivating people to want to give above and beyond the call of duty. Lord, need more annointing and help in this department… Help me be an encourager. Help me inspire others to be encouragers. And last but not least, help me to cultivate the spirit of excellence in all that I do.

My definition of a Perfectionist vs. someone with the spirit of Excellence:

The first is to have everything in perfect detail and order, while the second is to give one’s best in what one does to the best of one’s capability. The first cultivates the attitude of a critic while the second results in joyous servanthood.

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Early Morning Musings

Nov 25 2003 Published by coolcat under Devotions

Lord, whenever my heart is in despair
Your sweet presence and comfort
They envelope me
Pulling me closer
Drawing me deeper
Into the endless depths of Your love

How can I ever comprehend
The extent of Your love for me?
I am too short-sighted
Too easily discouraged
If not for Your grace
Where will I be?

Where will I go?
What will I do?
You alone know all these and more
This simple truth so easily eludes me
But here and now
This fruitless search must come to an end

I am Yours
Forevermore

~ c o o l g a l

In the still of the night, the words just came like a breath of fresh air. How inspiring is the love of God who alone knows the deep recesses of my heart. He knows the daily and repetitive struggles I face and yet, and yet, He will never tire of listening to my prayers, repetitive though they may be to my own ears. He is not a mere human who will despise, reject and abandon in their moment of weakness. He is utterly trustworthy and faithful to the very end of time.

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Cosmopolitan Model

Nov 25 2003 Published by coolcat under Prattle


Hey, I’m now a Cosmopolitan model! It looks rather believable, doesn’t it? It’s all thanks to my friend’s virtual makeover software. I had loads of fun making over myself virtually. It’s really cool!

Oooh, check out these groovy hairstyles…

Clairol natural hair dye, anyone?

Move over, Whoopi Goldberg. My hair is here to reign!

Aah, well… you must admit, it’s a pretty nifty tool to use before paying a visit to the hairstylists. Obviously, am in a holiday mood now :) To all Malaysians, happy holidays!

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Yummy Wasabi

Nov 24 2003 Published by coolcat under Foodies

One of my directors just came back from Australia and brought back some yummy wasabi macadamia nuts. Bet ya haven’t heard of such a combi… hehe. Well, it tastes like wasabi and macadamia nuts (whaddaya expect?) – a bit weird but definitely tasty (if you like wasabi and macadamia nuts, that is)!

Can’t resist putting up a photo for you guys to drool over ;) Well, ok, it may not look all that appetizing but trust me on this – it’s great!

Definition of wasabi: (Taken from [url=http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/19991216.html]here[/url])
It’s a type of Japanese horseradish with medicinal properties that act as an antidote to food poisoning, which is useful when served with fresh raw fish. Research in Japan suggests that wasabi may also have anti-carcinogenic properties. It can certainly clear your sinuses.

Can’t see how it helps out with macadamia nuts but it sure sounds healthy and it tastes yummy.

Anyway, tomorrow and Wed are the Hari Raya public hols… yippee do! Probably will be offline those days.

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I’ll Be There ~ a poem

Nov 24 2003 Published by coolcat under Poems

From the piercing light of the rising sun,
To the yellow stream of the moonlight beam,
Just dream about me, and I’ll be there.
From the twittering melodies of the morning birds,
To the howling sound of the dancing wolves,
Just call on me, and I’ll be there.
From the echoes on the edge of a wicked dream,
Through the whispers of the shivering breeze,
Just think of me, and I’ll be there.

~ d r e a m s u n

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